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November 11th, 2009
savagelove
| 12:00 am - Features: Savage Love:November 11, 2009
http://www.avclub.com/articles/november-11-2009,35160/?utm_medium=RSS&utm_campaign=feeds&utm_source=type_savage-love I am a 30-year-old woman, married for five years to a man eight years my senior. Lately I have become more aware that I am turned on by the idea of bondage, specifically men locked up in chastity devices. I am ashamed of myself, because it seems, well, pretty perverse and disturbed. My husband is a pretty dominant alpha-male type. I am a relatively dominant personality, but I’m a bit submissive around him in order to keep the peace, as he will not tolerate any disagreement in certain situations. So I am wondering: Is this new fetish springing from ...
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November 10th, 2009
ecmyers
 | 11:00 pm - this is ridiculous And no amount of poking and prodding could convince him to move.
 Current Mood: amused
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cmpriest
 | 06:12 pm - Jam-packed week already
The last couple of days have been filled to the brim with errand-running and stuff-doing, including (but not limited to) - grocery shopping, post-office visiting, bank dropping-by, University Book Store stock (and mail order) signing, print framing, house cleaning, laundry washing, official correspondence exchanging, outline jotting, fish tank changing, and event preparations.
That last one may have you wondering … what event?
Don’t tell me you’ve forgotten already!
Here, let me refresh your memory.
This coming Thursday, at 15th Avenue Coffee and Tea on Capitol Hill,* I’ll be hanging about and signing books and basically having a marvelous time at a most excellent party being thrown by some of my awesome friends. No, seriously. Ellen, Suezie, and Psynde — these three have knocked it out of the park … and into the local establishment where there will be music, costumes, prizes, booze, caffeine, and snacks for the ordering. You can click here for details or heck, just show up some time after six o’clock and join the fray.
Bring your books and I’ll sign them if you like, or buy them at the event. Or forget the books, and just swing by to be social. I’m always happy to meet new people, and Mark Henry will be MC’ing the event. If you’ve never heard Mark MC anything, then you must absolutely not pass up this opportunity. If you have, then I’m already confident that you’ll be in attendance, unwilling to miss it.
This will be an all-ages event, since (a). it’s open to the public, and (b). Boneshaker is a bit of an adult/young adult crossover. Or so I am told. In any event, lots of young adults seem to be reading it, either by swiping it from their parents or nabbing it from a friend. Let me be the first to say I APPROVE OF THIS BEHAVIOR. Please do carry on.
Anyway. It’s coming up on suppertime here and the husband just got home from work, so I’m going to wrap this up and go get myself some noms. Thanks so much for reading, and I hope I’ll see some of you locals later on this week!
* Yes, I am aware that this is really a Starbucks in disguise. We tried first and foremost to run with an independent shop for this event, but we got nothing but hassle and run-around; and then the 15th Ave people stepped in. The store has been exceedingly supportive and helpful, and I’m grateful for the venue.
[Crossposted to/from my website. If you'd like to comment, you can do so either here or there.]
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officialgaiman
| 05:49 pm - half a lifetime?
http://journal.neilgaiman.com/2009/11/half-lifetime.html posted by Neil
The editor at CBS Sunday Morning asked if I had any photos of my son Mike back at the period when I first had the idea for The Graveyard Book - late 1985. I looked. We really didn't have any. I wandered next door and asked Mary (his mum, my former wife and for these last five years my friend and next-door neighbour) if she had any photos from back then. "No," she said. Then, "Do you mean those transparencies? I have them in an envelope somewhere." She vanished and came back with a large manila envelope from a long time ago. "Here."
Half a lifetime ago -- literally -- I was nearly 25, and working for magazines. Henry Fikret, who photographed a lot of the interviews I did, volunteered to take some photos of me and my family, and he did.A week later the envelope arrived, and I realised that everything he shot was on colour transparencies -- like huge slides -- and I was never sure what do with them, other than being fairly sure I couldn't take them down to Boots the Chemist and have prints knocked out. So they stayed in their envelope, and they kept their secrets, and were forgotten.
Yesterday I had the transparencies scanned, and finally got to see lots of pictures I had never actually seen before of Holly as a baby, Mike at the time that I would have watched him riding his tricycle around the graveyard, and me... at exactly half my age: A young journalist who had sold a very small handful of short stories and two non-fiction books, with dreams of writing fiction and comics. At the time I was dressing in grey, but was getting tired of the way that you would buy something grey and take it home and discover that it was a blueish grey or a brownish grey, and wondering if I'd have the same problem if I just started to dress in black.
And half a lifetime on, it seemed like it might be good to put one up here. I checked, and Mary didn't mind. What odd clothes we wore back then. What big glasses. And look, my hair is practically normal.


 So long ago, and it went like the blink of an eye. ...
Birthday wishes are flooding in from around the globe. I wish I could reply to everyone personally, but it would take the next 365 days... so thank you. Thank you all.
... In January I will be part of a free concert for all ages on January 16, 2010, at 7pm, in the World Financial Center Winter Garden, New York. I'll be the narrator for the performance of Peter and the Wolf, performed by the http://www.knickerbocker-orchestra.org (whose website you should visit to get details).
Alan Moore is leaping aboard the Underground magazine bandwagon. Following the success of IT and OZ, Alan's Dodgem Logic is coming out. There's a great interview with Alan at http://www.mustardweb.org/dodgemlogic/
(And enormous congratulations to Alan, who is now a grandfather, and to Leah and John, who are now parents, and Edward Alec Moore-Reppion, who is now, um, born. A Scorpio, like his grandfather and his whatever-exactly-I am, sort of honorary great-uncle or something. Not that we Scorpios believe in that sort of thing, of course.)
Again, thank you all for the birthday wishes...
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ladymondegreen
 | 10:03 am - Stalking and catching a new fridge may be hazardous to your health On Saturday night, our fridge died, with a great deal of compressor failure and an interesting and unpleasant smell.
( Adventures in refrigeration. ) Current Location: My new couch (opposite my grandfather's couch) Current Mood: tired Current Music: WFUV, broadcasting online only due to tower repair
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November 9th, 2009
officialgaiman
| 06:31 pm - For those who read this blog for the articles
http://journal.neilgaiman.com/2009/11/for-those-who-read-this-blog-for.html posted by Neil
 (Serena Altschul and some author in July, sitting on the trampoline after two days of interviews. None of which, oddly enough, were done on the trampoline.)
Mr. Neil,
I DVR'd yesterday's installment of Sunday Morning and after zipping through it back and forth multiple times cannot seem to find you, though the description indicated the correct episode. Was it bumped to next week? Have you been sucked into an alternate Neil-less universe?
A concerned reader, Mary
I'm afraid it was bumped by the Fort Hood Massacre.
I checked: The profile CBS did of me is apparently still going out, probably some time in December, although no-one seems certain when. I was told that we could help ensure that it is broadcast (and possibly make it come out sooner than December) if CBS think people would actually like to see it. Which means that if you do want to see it, you can help the process along if you write or email CBS and (politely) tell them so:
ADDRESS: CBS News Sunday Morning Box O (for Osgood) 524 West 57th St. New York, NY 10019
E-MAIL: sundays@cbsnews.com
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My friend Steve Brust (a fine and brilliant novelist) wrote to Miss Manners about his financial issues, and what having a Donate button on a website means. She replied to him here. There's a fascinating conversation going on about it at his website that I initially missed because I was in China... Most people disagree with Miss Manners. Even I disagree with Miss Manners, and I don't have a Donate button, or use the Amazon links to generate revenue, or have advertising or anything. (That's because Harper Collins set up this website, and they pay for our bandwidth and such. If they stopped, I'd have to think about ways to make it pay for itself.) ...
Stephen King's UNDER THE DOME was one of my favourite books of the year so far. (R. Crumb's retelling of the Book of Genesis is my very favourite book of the year.) So I was pleased to be sent this link to a really wonderful Stephen King poem:
(It's published by Playboy, which means that for some of you the site may be blocked.)
(Needless to say, I only read the New Yorker for the articles.) ...
Dear Neil Gaiman, I ask for half-a-moment of your time (I would not presume to ask for more). This Spring 2010 I am teaching a Topics in Literature class on YOU at Winona State University (Eng 225: Neil Gaiman). Easy enough to select representative novel (American Gods), short stories (Fragile Things), children and YA (Graveyard Book), but here's the rub: I will likely only assign one Sandman graphic novel to students. I have been debating which is most representative, most worthy of inclusion, most amenable to class discussion and student scholarship. Then I thought I'd ask you. I know you suggest above that, for questions of this sort, we consider you a dead author, but I know you're not. When I came to a similar impasse about which of Ursula Le Guin's works to include in another class, she actually replied and offered her input. I extend the same offer to you: which of the Sandman volumes would you like to see on the syllabus? Thank you for your time, Nicholas Ozment, English Instructor WSU
It's a hard one. I think if I were teaching I'd either go for Season of Mists or Fables and Reflections, because both of them have stuff to teach -- those nice chewy bits that people can like or dislike, argue with or discuss. I know a lot of teachers like to teach Dream Country because a) Midsummer Night's Dream won awards, and b) it's short and c) it has a script in the back. Your call. And good luck.
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I mentioned recently that there were some beautiful new Polish and Russian book covers for my books that I'd seen at signings, which got me thinking. The International Cover gallery on this website is incredibly out of date.
It's at http://www.neilgaiman.com/p/Neil's_Work/International_Covers.
And though I get a lot of foreign editions in, and will at some point head down to the basement and rummage around and scan some (this week's mail brought the two-volume Japanese edition of Anansi Boys, on the cover of which Fat Charlie is not only Very White, but also Very Thin, and the complex Chinese - ie. Taiwan and Hong Kong - edition of The Graveyard Book) I thought that blog readers, being, as you are, all over the world, might be a better resource for knowing where to look for foreign covers.
So if you have, and want to scan in or link to foreign covers we do not have posted, or are a foreign publisher and would like your books up, there is now a submission page: http://www.neilgaiman.com/extras/covers/ which lets you upload them to the webgoblin, who will put them in the gallery (and on the pages for the books in question). And perhaps we should have them arranged by country as well -- some countries, like the French and the Russians and the Poles, have had so many different covers over the years. (Also, Absolute Death was published this week. It is amazingly beautiful. Yes, I think they overpriced it too and no, pricing decisions at DC Comics are nothing to do with me. And the audio book of Good Omens will be released tomorrow. It's read by Martin Jarvis. People have asked why it is not read by me, and I have to explain that it is because if I read it I would just be doing my Martin Jarvis reading the William storiess impression, so better by far to have the real thing.)
Was your basement finished when you purchased your home or did you have it finished for your basement library? If you finished it yourself, how difficult was it? Also, I thought I saw a dehumidifier in one of the Photosynth pictures. Do you need one because of the books?
I'm asking because we have a full unfinished basement that we would like to have finished. We are running out of room for our books also. I don't think we don't have as many as you do though. :)
Any other suggestions for such a project would be greatly appreciated!
Thanks, C.
No, when we got here the basement had a clay floor that puddled when it rained. We hired some nice builders and spent a lot of money finishing it, putting in drainage tiles, underfloor heating and all. There's a dehumidifier there in the summer and a humidifier in the winter, because after the first few years I noticed that binding glue and leather book covers were both cracking and flaking. There's now the equivalent of a large house in basement rooms beneath this house, filled with books and CDs and suchlike stuff.
And finally, a few photos from the China trip, taken by Ian Ford (or in one case, on his camera). Ian's a travel guide who now lives in China who helped organise my travels, and came along with me for part of the journey.
Amanda and I in the silk clothes that my publisher had given us as a thank you for coming, and because they are terrific.
 Amanda, Ian Ford (in the pale top, also a gift from my publishers) and.. my publishers, SF World -- who will be publishing the mainland Chinese edition of The Graveyard Book very soon, and are very excited. I'm holding the Galaxy Award for this year, given to the foreign author most popular with Chinese reader-voters. This was my second year of winning it, so I have retired from the competition and said that they have to find a new favourite foreign author now.
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ladymondegreen
 | 04:12 pm - My OVFF 2009 (or, the waveforms collapse and equal out), a deeply exhaustive convention report My con, as always, was a combination of wonderful music, blissful time with friends, manic planning, and schlepping.
Since the con started a day early this year, this con report starts on Wednesday:
( In which Delta institutes a new rule you may all become familiar with ) Current Mood: chipper Current Music: The Flu Pandemic (Internal)
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November 8th, 2009
cmpriest
 | 07:00 pm - An afternoon full of trains
Today Caitlin and I hopped into the Cookie Monster for its inaugural jaunt out of town. We headed out to Snoqualmie — not the pass or the casino or the subdivision acres, but to the tiny frontier town with its adorable old train station, museum, and “downtown” strip.
(I don’t use the quotes to mock Snoqualmie’s downtown. The quotes indicate that this strip is pretty much one street. But it’s a lovely street, and I rather like the place. I’ve been there half a dozen times now, just to hang out and poke around.)
Anyway. The main official purpose for the trip was to acquire some new author photos for yours truly. Caitlin has an awesome camera, and she does a most excellent job of photography … and she works for peanuts. Or for lunch and a ride, and a cup of tea — as the case may be.
I’m going to place the results of our pictorial excursion behind a jump, because I’m just not quite narcissistic enough to want to see several big pictures of myself every time I load the page. I know, I know. I must be getting old or something. Anyway, click the link immediately below this paragraph to take a peek at them (or merely scroll down, if you’re reading this via a feed or direct link.)
Read the rest of this entry » [Crossposted to/from my website. If you'd like to comment, you can do so either here or there.]
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cerulgalactus
 | 03:00 pm - Ummmm I just watched the Aqua Teen Hunger Force movie, and now I don't know what the hell is going on.
Well, to be honest, I did watch it in the background of marking stuff for school. But, I suspect that is I was paying full attention to the film, I would have even less idea of what the hell was going on. And also, I suspect I would be angry.
Unrelated - but I am surprised at how many roller derby leagues there are in Australia. 13 at last count. This excites me.
EDIT - I kinda sorta want everything on this site. Someone want to buy me stuff? Current Mood: working Current Music: Joe Negron - SWF 228 Gotcha
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November 7th, 2009
womzilla
 | 08:45 am - Scholarship Offer: An Announcement and Clarification [I just posted this on behalf of all three of us to the IAFA mailing list. Since the original announcement was made here on LJ, I thought the clarification should be, as well.]
As some of you have probably already heard, the three of us -- Arthur Hlavaty, Bernadette Bosky, and Kevin Maroney -- are offering a scholarship to this year's ICFA for a person of color who would otherwise not be able to attend. The offer originally published on Arthur's Livejournal, at http://supergee.livejournal.com/1969375.html; it has been reprinted in several places.
We are making this offer as a family that has, separately and collectively, a long and happy history with the Conference. We're amazed by the quality of the people who have e-mailed and expect that next week we will be able to announce a beneficiary who will bring a great deal to the Conference.
There has been some confusion about the sponsorship of this scholarship. We wish to stress that it is completely the responsibility of the three of us. Neither the Conference nor the Association are involved with the administration nor funding of the scholarship in any way. It is a scholarship *to* the Conference, not *from* the Conference.
Also, we wish to apologize for the lack of official communication with the conference before last night. The circumstances which lead to us being able to make this offer came about very suddenly, and when we realized we could do this, we rushed the announcement out, because we knew that the formal deadline for papers, panels, and other Conference activities had passed. We wanted to give the recipient the best chance of being able to participate fully in the Conference. In our haste, we didn't think to notify any of the members of the Conference Board of our plans; the first any of them -- any of you -- heard about it was when the offer had already been made. This was, literally, thoughtless, and we are sorry for any inconvenience, confusion, or upset the oversight has caused.
Thanks for reading. Please pass this announcement along to any person or venue where you think it might be of interest, and we will see you all in Orlando in the year and years to come. Current Mood: anticipatory Current Music: "Peace and Hate", The Submarines
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ecmyers
 | 12:34 am - return to sender
By the way, my review of Richard Kelly's new film, The Box, is now up at Tor.com. It's hard to say whether this film is worse than the direct-to-DVD S. Darko, mostly because I haven't been able to bring myself to watch the ill-conceived sequel to one of my favorite time travel movies. (I learned my lesson after sitting through The Butterfly Effect 2.) But at least Kelly knew enough to stay away from that one. As a devoted fan of The Twilight Zone and Richard Matheson's ouvre, I had higher hopes than anyone for The Box, but if there's one thing I've learned to live with, it's disappointment. At least I didn't have to pay to see the movie--unlike you, if you choose not to heed my warning.
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November 6th, 2009
cmpriest
 | 06:23 pm - REJOICE.
Finally, finally, finally I think we’ve gotten our vehicle situation sorted out. Finally. Why yes, we DID buy the new (to us) vehicle a couple of weeks ago now. And no, we haven’t been driving it all this time. It’s been this epic Sierra adventure game of how we need to get one thing fixed, but we can’t fix that one thing until we do this other thing, and we can’t do that thing until yet another thing has fallen into place, and that wouldn’t happen until we drank the grog and entered the spitting contest with the pirates, and that can’t happen until more than three people get this joke, which probably won’t occur, etcetera etcetera etcetera.
But. It seems to be sorted out now, down to the insurance and the maniacal giggling. The “Cookie Monster” (as I’ve come to call it) still needs a tiny bit of belt work, but I’ll see if I can arrange for it tomorrow afternoon or Monday, and it shouldn’t be a big deal. Point is, Cookie Monster is ours. Fair and square, in the clear. Now I just have to clean out the old car and call up the PBS donation folks, and then we’ll be back down to one vehicle — it is to be hoped, one vehicle that works pretty much consistently. We pray.
Anyway. I regret to admit that due to the epic run-around and outstanding asshattery from the repair shop,* I got virtually nothing productive accomplished today (except some day-job work, but even that wasn’t as extensive as it should’ve been).
In order to wind down and quit seething, I cleaned house and did the floors, and started some laundry. Now I’m just waiting for the hubs to get home, and I hope he brings booze, because hot damn I could use a drink right about now.
* No, I’m not ready to bore you with the particulars, because things actually did get sorted eventually, via tremendous headache. However, I will say this: If you are in Seattle, avoid Econo Lubes. Oh wait, there’s only one Econo Lube in Seattle … so … yeah. Avoid that one.
[Crossposted to/from my website. If you'd like to comment, you can do so either here or there.]
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womzilla
 | 07:44 pm - Another comment without context The posting of which in context could no do one any good at all.
"Glad to see that you think I'm totally irrelevant in this process. But then, so are you." Current Mood: bemused Current Music: "You're Going to Lose That Girl", The Beatles
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womzilla
 | 07:15 pm - Heavy heart, bad times Fort Hood is near Temple, Texas. Temple is very similar to Arlen, the home of the Hill family, and was long thought to be the primary inspiration for that East Texas ideal. So it's weird that my first reaction to yesterday's shooting was, "I hope Bill Dauterive is okay." But I think it's understandable--we put things into the contexts we understand.
Still, that's better than some reactions. Roy Edroso (he charts the fever swamps of the right-wing blogosphere so that you don't have to) sums up:
There will be plenty of small-time nutcakes making fools of themselves . . . but the more well-known and respectable rightbloggers are soiling themselves as badly as any of those.
The reason's simple, and the same as it was during 9/11: they think soiling oneself is a sign of patriotism, and consider those who pants are not full of shit to be traitors. Current Mood: i've had better moods Current Music: "Clouds", The Submarines
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